TO LOVE IS TO DESTROY.

My title for today's entry is something that I got from the mortal instruments series by Cassandra Clare. Her character named Jace does not believe in love. In fact he his "father" taught him that whatever you love, or whoever loves you, destroys you. I did not believe that at first. Because come on, we all need love and who does not. I think the answer would be Jace.

That gave me clarity today and I had the guts to scream to my blog entry that Love does destroy people. It can either mend you or break you. You just do not know what is going to happen next.

TO LOVE IS TO DESTROY

Just think of it like think of it like this. When your parent care for you they hit you or they simply scold you because of your wrong doing and because of that you think that you are in fucking pain and would want to leave the house because you feel like your parents hate you... but as a matter of fact they do love you and you are just too stupid to realize that whatever they are doing to you is for your own good and that no matter what happens you must know where you stand and just listen to them.

Second example; when your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you. You would emotionally tweet that your world just went black and everything that makes you breathe or LIVE is gone. Along with that dickhead or whore you used to date. And then you would start to cry and mourn and be on a stage where you just want to be left alone. With no one to bother you at all. I think everyone does have that feeling right? Even if you don't have a boyfriend or simply your crush is not so into you and your like.WTF. He or she made me feel like we had something moments. When in fact it was all in your head and you just really liked that person. 

If your love ones die. You would mourn over them right? You would feel like the whole world just crushed and your on that place where you feel like you have no right to live anymore. Nothing makes sense and then you are going to blame yourself, then you are going to question God. 

SEE? The thing is... Love does destroy us at some points where we just don't see it. We love too much it hurts us. I think it is true that we must love ourselves first and never let anyone bring us down because no matter what happens. We all need to move on and let go.