how to move on from your one sided love.

I have been talking to my friend recently about being the "friend" type of girl and not the girl that any guy would like to date.

Yes, I am one of those girls who guys would prefer as their best friend or their loyal friend in any circumstances and that is it. They will never see me as the lady that I wish for them to see.

I am not bitter or anything, I promise! I am one of the coolest and most weirdest girl out there. I just have come to accept the fact that I would be alone for life and that I should focus on my career first and my future wealth. I think  I would be satisfied with that I don't really need anything else.

So, here are some things that have helped me cope with my friend zoned or ignored feelings.

1. RESEARCH FOR SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE YOU SMILE

2. ONCE YOU HAVE GATHERED ENOUGH STRENGTH AND HAVE FOUND SOMETHING THAT WOULD MAKE YOU HAPPY, FAN GIRL OVER IT!

3. AND THERE YOU HAVE IT. YOU ARE INDEED HAPPY AND PRE-OCCUPIED. IT COULD BE ANYTHING. FROM BOOKS TO MUSIC TO YOUR FAVORITE SERIES OR MOVIES OR WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU FIND INTERESTING! INVEST IN IT BECAUSE IT WILL REALLY CHANGE YOUR LIFE. I SWEAR. 

Some people might find it odd, since you are interested in people who does not care. But being a fan girl gives you the privilege to meet new people and not feel lonely at all. I find fan girling as sort of a therapy wherein you can express what you really feel and care for someone who would give you good service through the music, movie or whatever project it is they are working on!  

HERE ARE SOME OF THE THINGS THAT I ENJOY! SINCE I AM A SELF PROCLAIMED TOTAL FAN GIRL LOL 

A. MUSIC 

ONE DIRECTION

EXO

NCT (ALL UNITS)

LITTLE MIX

DEMI LOVATO 

B. BOOKS 

C. TV SERIES BE IT KOREAN OR AMERICAN. I JUST LOVE TV SHOWS

I HOPE I HAVE HELPED YOU THROUGH THIS WEIRD BLOG POST. LOL IF YOU ARE READING THIS. ITS OKAY. TOGETHER WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS! IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS DON'T BE SHY TO MESSAGE ME OR COMMENT DOWN BELOW!